If you need help, look for a Virgo. These smart, hardworking zodiac sign members love to help others.
Taking care of others is not the only thing that makes Virgo a good partner, though. If you want to know who a kind-hearted Virgo should date, let us help you.
Virgo’s main qualities
Virgos are born between August 23 and September 22. They are an earth sign ruled by Mercury, which makes them very talkative and smart. Virgos will often work hard at a job, a project, or a hobby, and they will hold themselves to the greatest standards and rules. Virgos are also often very careful. They are known for making sure that everything is where it should be.
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Virgo’s sharp mind and attention to detail make her a great project boss and problem-solver. You can find these careful thinkers in the office or in the background of a nonprofit, making sure that big plans go off without a hitch. A Virgo often acts like the self-appointed CEO of their family as well. They can keep track of the whole family’s plan in their large memory.
Even though Virgos like to be in charge, they are known for being humble and quiet. Virgos like to make environments that feel safe, planned, and calm. Thoughtful Virgo is known for being a gentle parent and partner who is eager to share what they’re learning with loved ones and sees family as an endless chance to learn about the world through the eyes of others.
What Does a Good Partner for Virgo Look Like?
Signs that are compatible with Virgos tend to have personality traits that Virgos find beautiful. To know how to get along with a Virgo, you need to know what qualities they look for in their friends and partners.
We’ll help you figure out what makes a good match for Virgo by looking at five traits that work well with Virgo.
Trait 1: Interested
One thing that makes Virgo stand out is their desire to learn. Virgo is always looking for new ideas or ways to do things. The world is a study site for Virgo, and they like to watch people, animals, and everything else. (They also like to keep mental lists of these little pieces of information, so you’ll want a Virgo on your quiz team!)
A Virgo would love to have a friend or partner who is also a thinker. They are drawn to people who are just as curious as they are. A Virgo’s life is made more interesting by a partner who is also curious, which is great for someone who loves to collect new ideas and observations.
Trait 2: A sense of humor
Virgos tend to be a little on edge, and their need for order can keep them on a hamster wheel of cleaning, arranging, and fixing. They don’t know how to use the “r” word, which means “chill out!” Because of this, a more easygoing partner can help a Virgo relax.
A Virgo trusts in how careful they are, so letting themselves rest can make them feel like they have no control. A friend or partner who can live in the moment, laugh at life, and get off the hamster wheel can show Virgo that it’s okay to take a day off.
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Trait 3: Cares About Others
As the most helpful sign of the zodiac, a Virgo likes to be around other loving, sensitive people. People who love to take care of others are the best friends and partners for Virgos. If you want an easy road map back into your Virgo man heart, we highly recommend using Anna Kovach’s tried-and-tested techniques inVirgo Man Secrets.
Virgos are good at fixing things and taking care of others, and they tend to be drawn to people who need help. When a nurturer and a Virgo meet in the wild, it can feel like Virgo has met a rare kindred spirit. A Virgo wants to be with someone who knows how much they worry about other people and is willing to help them take care of them. Virgos look for a caring person in a long-term partner with whom they want to start a family. The family-oriented nature of Virgo makes it a good match for someone who will do their best to take care of those they love.
Trait 4: Keeping a level head
A Virgo doesn’t like to live in anything that looks like chaos. The less power Virgo feels like they have, the more likely they are to think the sky is falling. (Remember that Virgos strive for perfection? That means they don’t deal well with change!) When Virgos start to slide, they tend to fall apart, which can be bad for their mental health.
Enter a cool-headed lover, who can tell a nervous Virgo that the sky is still there and that they might be freaking out too soon. When things don’t go their way, Virgo needs someone to help them see the big picture. A partner who can see the big picture can calm Virgo’s fears with a bird’s eye view.
Trait 5: Compassion
Since Virgos are very emotional, they don’t open up to other people as much as they could. They aren’t afraid to show love and care to other people, but when it comes to their own feelings, they tend to be more defensive. With such a tender heart, Virgos are easily hurt, so they try to put up walls around their feelings to protect themselves.
Virgo may want to talk about their feelings, but they don’t always know how. A partner who is good at talking about feelings can help Virgo open up without making them feel disrespected. A gentle and kind partner can help Virgos get in touch with the part of themselves that they hide behind a tough exterior.
Scorpio, Capricorn, Taurus, and Cancer are all good matches for Virgo.
For Virgo, there are a lot of other star signs that could be a good match. They tend to be good partners for everyone because they care. But Scorpio, Capricorn, Taurus, and Cancer are the signs that they get along best with.
Scorpio and Virgo
Scorpio is the sign that gets along best with Virgo. Scorpio and Virgo are a good match because they both have similar ideas about how to live. Both signs are very smart and observant, and they both like to have their lives well-organized. These two signs like to get together and talk about how to reach their goals. Then they make a plan and carry it out.
Capricorn and Virgo
Capricorn and Virgo are one of the best astrological matches. Cap and Virgo are both practical and passionate. They work together to take care of their loved ones and make their home a warm place to be. Together, they have a natural connection that lets both signs be themselves and feel at ease.
Virgo and Taurus
Taurus and Virgo are both earth signs, and their likes and personalities are a lot alike. Taurus and Virgo both like things to look and feel “just right,” which makes them a good pair for making a traditional, elegant home. These two are a little bit old-fashioned, but they can feel safe knowing that their beliefs are strong.
Cancer and Virgo
Last is Cancer and Virgo, who have so many things in common that it’s hard to go wrong with them. For example, Cancer is also a caring sign, and Virgos are drawn to people who are also giving. Also, both Virgo and Cancer like things to be easy and safe, and they’ll find both in each other. Last but not least, Cancers are also big thinkers, so they won’t do anything last-minute that Virgos wouldn’t like.
Medium Virgo Compatibility: Virgo, Sagittarius, Pisces, Aries, Gemini
Virgo gets along with Aries, Sagittarius, Gemini, and Pisces about as well as they get along with each other. In each of these relationships, there are some traits that go well together and others that are a recipe for trouble.
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Aries and Virgo
Even though Virgo and Aries are very different, they can make a passionate couple if both are ready to work at it. The fiery and sexual nature of Aries melts Virgo’s cold exterior, and Virgo’s quiet simplicity gives Aries a sense of stability they didn’t know they needed. Their differences make them interesting, so these two won’t get bored quickly.
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Virgos and Virgos
For the perfectionist Virgo, getting together with another perfectionist might seem like the easiest way to go. But even though a Virgo will praise their Virgo partner for being neat, smart, and responsible, a Virgo with another Virgo can cause more problems than a relationship can handle. Life isn’t always organized and stable, and when a storm hits, both partners can feel anxiety and fear.
Virgo and Sagittarius
When Virgo and Sagittarius get together, their minds start to work. Intellectual Virgo will love it when Sagittarius talks about philosophy. These two will never run out of things to think about. Virgos and Sagittarians will talk about everything from art to the newest K-Pop stars during every quiet moment.
Pisces and Virgo
Pisces and Virgo get along because they are both known as healers. The patient empathy of a Pisces can help a stoic Virgo open up and talk about what’s going on inside of them. This helps build a strong base of trust. In this relationship, both people can be sure that they will be deeply and meaningfully cared for.
Virgo and Gemini
Both Virgo and Gemini are controlled by Mercury, which gives them similar ways of talking to each other and a desire to learn new things. They will always want to try new things, and they will talk for hours about the things that interest them.
Libra, Aquarius, and Leo are not good matches for Virgo.
There are three star signs that Virgo just doesn’t go well with. Libra, Aquarius, and Leo are the names of these signs.
Libra and Virgo
Both Libra and Virgo want the best, but how they try to get it can cause problems. Virgos expect the best from themselves because they believe that good things come from good seeds. Libras, on the other hand, are too positive and expect everything to go their way.
Virgo and Aquarius
Aquarius moves back and forth on the water, while Virgo stays put on their little piece of ground. Because of these big differences, it’s hard for these star signs to be in a good relationship with each other. Aquarius’s social life will be hard for introverted Virgo to handle, and Virgo’s tendency to take life too seriously will make Aquarius laugh.
Leo and Virgo
The loud and dramatic style of Leo can be too much for the calm Virgo. Even though Virgo might want Leo to calm down a bit, Leo doesn’t like to dim their light for anyone or anything. Also, a Virgo’s tendency to criticize and control other people’s problems can make a people-pleaser like a Leo feel like they have to change to fit the Virgo’s idea of perfection.
The three most important things to remember when dating a Virgo
Now that we’ve answered the question, “Who do Virgos get along with?” let’s take a step back and look at Virgo compatibility as a whole.
#1: You’re more than just your star sign
Don’t forget that being a Virgo doesn’t make you who you are. You don’t have to only have the traits that Virgos are known for. You can also have many other traits that work well with other personality types. You are the sum of all the things you’ve done. Your zodiac sign is just one way to learn more about yourself. It’s not the only thing that matters in your life.
#2: Judge people based on who they are.
Just like your star sign doesn’t define you, it doesn’t define the other people in your life, either. Don’t let the fact that someone is a “incompatible” sign make you decide not to date them. Instead, use their star sign to learn a little bit more about who they are. Even if someone is a Leo, that doesn’t mean you’ll get along well.
#3: Don’t think too much about it
Virgos are usually pretty smart, so they might want to make a list of the pros and cons of every relationship they have. Don’t forget that your heart is also a part of the process of getting to know someone. Don’t close yourself off from other people. Even though your heart is soft, it is also strong. If you let other people into it, you will be rewarded.
What Comes Next?
Want to know more about how other signs get along? We’ve done similar studies for Scorpio, Leo, Pisces, and a lot of other signs.
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